Etienne Brule Toronto – Memories of Kotla Delhi

EXPLORING IDENTITY THROUGH LOCAL HISTORIES

In this blog, we explore some local histories. I think about walks I had with my parents and family in Kotla-Delhi area in the 1970s. We go through local histories of Etienne Brule, Niagara Apothecary – established 1866 and Rattray Conservation Area-Mississauga-established 1975. I also present a worksheet to reflect upon and create thinking places

The last fortnight of November was hectic. After leaving Sagar at the airport, we went for a peaceful walk at Etienne Brule, Old Mills area. It is one of our thinking places. There is a Memorial Stone with these words of Robert Burns inscribed. 

Whatever mitigates the woes or increases the happiness of others

That is my criteria of goodness

Whatever injures society as a whole or any person in it

That is my measure of iniquity 

Over the past fortnight, we explored some areas of GTA – Greater Toronto Area. We also revisited Niagara Parks. We have now developed many personal memories with these places.

Old Mills Station: Remembering Edicts Parks as Thinking Places-Firoz Shah Kotla-Delhi-1980s 

Etienne Brule -Old Mills area has been a thinking place for many years. Examining local histories and relating them to immigrant narratives has been a quest for me since my college years. 

In Maulana Azad-Delhi days of 1980s, we used to go to the Firoz Shah Kotla Monuments and see how local inhabitants would pray at the 14th century mosque built around 1354. The Kotla complex in front of our college hostel and campus was a place for reflection. I would visit there with friends and family. The stepwell (baoli), the Ashokan Pillar, and lawns of Kotla helped me integrate periods of my childhood walks with my parents and family in the Sahyadris -1970s and Himalayas-1970s-1990s.

Ashokan Pillar of 3rd century-Shifted by Firoz Shah in 14th century

The Ashokan pillar was originally erected around 3rd century BCE at Topra village near modern Ambala in Haryana. Sultan Firoz Shah Tughlaq ordered the pillar to be moved to Firozabad around 1356. It was installed atop a three-storey pyramidal structure within the Kotla complex. It bears Ashoka’s famous Sixth and Seventh Pillar Edicts. These edicts elaborate on his personal commitment.

They also describe administrative measures to promote Dhamma (Sanskrit: Dharma), his concept of moral and social law.  They present Dhamma as a universal ethical code. It is essential for social harmony, good governance, and personal spiritual progress, not as a sectarian religious doctrine.

Ashoka was a devout Buddhist in personal life. As an emperor, he promoted secular moral philosophy for governance. His message found resonance. Thus, Firoz Shah installed the pillar in his capital. This monument uniquely combines the thoughts of Ashoka from the 3rd century BC. It also reflects the histories of Firoz Shah from the 14th century.


Core Principles of Dhamma Outlined in These Edicts

Principle (Pali/Sanskrit Term)Meaning & Application
Non-violence (Avihimsa)Respect for all life, restrictions on animal slaughter, and promotion of vegetarianism.
Obedience (Susrusa)Respectful obedience to parents, elders, teachers, and rightful authority.
Liberality (Dana)Generosity towards Brahmins, ascetics, friends, and the needy.
Truthfulness (Sachikichcha)Speaking the truth and maintaining integrity.
Purity of Heart (Bhava-suddhi)Cultivating inner virtues like compassion, kindness, and self-control.
ToleranceRespect for all religious sects and their freedom to practice.

 

Local Histories- Niagara Apothecary

The Niagara Apothecary was established in 1866.
It is a preserved 19th-century pharmacy located at 5 Queen Street in Niagara-on-the-Lake, Ontario. The building itself dates back to the 1820s, but it officially became an apothecary in 1866 when it was purchased by a local pharmacist.
Theme: Examining Local Histories and Integrating them to our Identity and Journeys


RATTRAY MARSH-CONSERVATION AREA- 50 years 1975-2025

 In 1967, concerned local residents, led by Dr. Albert and Barbara Reid, formed the “Protective Association of the Sheridan Creek Valley and Environs.” This group mobilized public opinion, conducted ecological studies, and lobbied governments intensely to save the marsh from destruction.

1972: The Credit Valley Conservation Authority (CVC) began acquiring key parcels of land.

1975: A decisive agreement was reached. The Province of Ontario, the CVC, and the City of Mississauga partnered to purchase the core 90-acre wetland and surrounding uplands, permanently protecting it from development.

Official Opening: The Rattray Marsh Conservation Area was officially opened to the public in 1976

BOOK CLUBS AND DISCUSSIONS: A WAY OF LIFE
My parents instilled the love of the written word in me. Going to Parks and developing them as Thinking Places started from the Hill Temples-Fortresses of Pune area in 1970s, evolved to longer walks in Himalayas- Shimla and Garhwal areas. In GTA area we went and prayed at Erindale and Richard Memorial – near the memorial trees installed in memory of my parents
Earlier Perspectives
2020 Discussions : Re-read the Reading Journal notes of Conrad’s – Heart of Darkness and the discussion of whether Conrad was a racist as some like Chinua Achebe say . This led us to -Things Fall Apart-  the book by Achebe in which Okonkwo struggles with the legacy of his father – a shiftless debtor fond of playing the flute – as well as the complications and contradictions that arise when white missionaries arrive in his village of Umuofia.
A time to connect- with my sons.
We went through the Extended Essay he wrote in 2016-17- in which he compared “Handmaid’s Tale” of Margaret Atwood-1985 to “Jane Eyre” of Charlotte Bronte-1847.
See blog  –Letters and Journals 2020

Remembering Kotla at Etienne Brule

After a hectic week, we walked to the memorial stone of David Dryburgh Birrell. We read the words of Robert Burns there.

Whatever injures society as a whole or any person in it

That is my measure of iniquity 

Those inscriptions of Kotla Delhi say something similar.

Worksheet for Reflection

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Walks : Kariya Park and Mindfulness Metta Reflections

Last week we walked at Rattray Marsh. It was a good preparation for the book for December 2025, A Walk in the Park by Kevin Fedarko.

Reading Diary- Kariya Park 2025 Nov

Went to Kariya Park-Mississauga and made notings of seven elements of Mindfulness and also looked at the diary which I have been keeping with my sons-Sagar and Sahil from Malta days-2010-2012.

Geological Time and Walks 

My first experience of walking in childhood in Sahyadris which are volcanic in origin and around 60 million years old. In the Mumbai days, children joined the Natural History society and we used to go for walks to Sanjay Gandhi National Park- Goregaon area.

Rattray Marsh-50 years of Conservation-1975-2025

7 Points of Mindfulness Exercise

Seven Points of Mindfulness Exercise

1- Sights

2-Sounds

3-Smell

4- Taste

5- Touch

6-Time

7- Mind

Eg

1- Sights      of waves in the pond at Kariya Park

2-Sounds     of geese and breeze near pond

3-Smell        scent of pond early winter

4- Taste       tea in morning

5- Touch      cold bench in park

6-Time        Geological Time-through Readings of Fedarko book

7- Mind       Metta Meditation-May all the persons coming to this Park

                   Be safe, happy and at ease

                   May all the persons of the book club by safe, happy and at ease

                   May all the persons of the Natural History Society-Goregaon -Mumbai be safe

                   Happy and at ease

             Gratitude- for the persons who maintain this park.

Earlier Perspectives

Remembering walks in 1970s-Pune- Sahyadris

Ophir to Bassein-Reading discussions-2018

Worksheet for Metta Meditation- Living Kindness

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Beyond Clocks and Calendars

Last week, I had a heart to heart talk with an old friend. In this blog, we touch upon Ontological time. As we shared about how our families have evolved over the decades I mined my reading journals. He shared pictures of his daughter’s marriage in UK. My mind’s eye went back to the sweets celebrating his own marriage in India.

We deepened our friendship in the Delhi campuses. Movies and walks together, book discussions are a way of life for me. For example, Junoon (Directed by Shyam Benegal-1978), based on the story- Flight of Pigeons by Ruskin Bond – set in the 1857 mutiny helped me understand metaphors and time.

Book Clubs and Ontological time

Clocks and calendars are one way of managing time. Another way is to just be.

Book Clubs get a sense of lived experience of time beyond clocks and calendars.

My teachers in St. Vincent’s High school, Pune,India introduced me to Oliver Twist by Charles Dickens in grade 3, in 1970 s.  My uncle helped me see  Salman Rushdie in a different way -Midnight’s children-Shyampur area of Rishikesh-Haridwar region.

IF DELHI FALLS, RUTH WILL BE YOURS

Remembering Miriam Labadoor,

Flight of Pigeons-Ruskin Bond/Junoon-Shyam Benegal

Literature has helped me see beyond basic structures of the works and seek metaphors. “Flight of Pigeons” by Ruskin Bond, which was adapted into the film Junoon-1978, directed by Sham Benegal is one of my favourites.

Junoon-1978- Director Shyam Benegal ; Story-Ruskin Bond-Flight of Pigeons- Set in the 1857 Mutiny

Ruth – Nafisa Ali; Miriam- Jennifer Kendal, Javed Khan- Shashi Kapoor

Source https://alchetron.com/Junoon-(1978-film)

The Metaphor: The Inviolable Institution of Family vs. The Raw Power of Obsession comes alive in this gambit which the mother plays to ward off Javed Khan (played by Shashi Kapoor).

The family as a sacred institution and the unexpected, strategic power wielded by the female characters within it came alive in this dynamic.

The Family as a Fortress of Civilization

The Labadoor household, even as captives, represents an institution of order, law, and civilized conduct amidst the chaos of the rebellion.

  • Javed Khan, despite his wild obsession and military power, recognizes the authority of this institution. He understands that a forcible abduction would be an act of pure barbarism, placing him outside the bounds of any recognized social or moral code, even the one he is fighting for.
  • By not abducting Ruth, he is, in a twisted way, paying homage to the very structures of civilization (marriage, family, promise) that his rebellion seeks to redefine but not entirely destroy.

The Strategic Power of the Feminine

This is where the true metaphor for female power emerges. It is not the power of physical force, but the power of nuance, negotiation, and institutional leverage.

Mariam’s Gambit (The Mother): Buying Time  Her promise is a masterstroke of strategic desperation. She uses the only currency she has left—her daughter’s future—to buy the one thing they need most: time. She metaphorically transforms a potential violent seizure into a conditional, contractual agreement.

The Core Metaphor

The metaphor is: The formal, institutional power of the family (represented by the mother’s word) can, for a time, checkmate the raw, masculine power of military force and obsession.

Javed could have taken Ruth by force, but that would have been a hollow victory, destroying the very concept of the “prize” he sought.

By engaging with the mother and accepting the terms of the promise, he is paradoxically acknowledging the superior authority of the social institution she represents, even as he holds her physically captive. It is a metaphor for the enduring power of social contracts over the temporary chaos of rebellion.

Understanding Ontological Time

Ontological time refers to the subjective, lived experience of time that exists beyond the objective measurement of clocks and calendars.

Earlier Perspectives: Remembering Heart of Darkness at Mitiga airport-Tripoli

The Nellie, a cruising yawl, swung to her anchor without a flutter of the sails and  was at rest

The first lines of Conrad’s –Heart of Darkness

MITIGA | Prashant Bhatt’s notes

Gargarish Cemetery-Tripoli (picture taken 2009)

We used to have a book club in Tripoli, where we discussed works like Heart of Darkness by Joseph Conrad, in a more intimate way, having seen on the ground, the unfolding of a society coming out of 42 years of dictatorship (Gaddafi regime 1969-2011). For a book club member, this concept manifests in the deeply personal and collective journey through a shared text.

The chronological hours spent reading alone in a quiet room are transformed when brought into the group; they become a tapestry of individual reflections, emotional responses, and intellectual discoveries that are woven together during discussion.

In this shared space, time is not linear but expansive, stretching to accommodate the resonance of a powerful metaphor or contracting during a moment of collective insight.

The meaning of the book is not fixed at the moment the last page is turned, but continues to evolve and live within the group, shaped by each member’s unique perspective and the dynamic interplay of their interpretations. This lived, qualitative time—the duration of shared understanding and the building of a communal narrative around the text—is the essence of the ontological experience, where the act of reading together creates a timeless, meaningful connection that exists independently of the clock on the wall.

CURRENT BOOKS

We read some portions of Robin Sharma’s – The Monk who sold his Ferrari- and in which as part of the discussion we dissected three questions

1- where we came from

2- why are we here

3- who are we as a group or persons

Those discussions and readings led us to Dave Matthews -song- Gravedigger.


DISCUSSIONS WITH AN OLD FRIEND-ACROSS DECADES

Last week, sitting in High Park, Toronto, I reconnected with a friend. We first came to know each other when we were in our late teens, early twenties, doing undergraduate studies. We have stayed in touch over the decades. Remembering the times when we used to go to see the New Wave Parallel Cinema movement movies at Shakuntalam theatre, a precursor to the many book clubs I have been a part of – in Delhi, Tripoli- Libya, Canada- made me relook at the Metaphors one can learn from the movie Junoon (1978).

Earlier Perspectives- Dissecting Pinjar – by Amrita Pritam, written in 1950

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Amrita Pritam wrote Pinjar (The Skeleton) in 1950.


Key Details

DetailInformation
TitlePinjar (English: The Skeleton)
AuthorAmrita Pritam
Year of Publication1950
LanguagePunjabi
GenreNovel, Partition Literature

The novel is a landmark work of Partition literature, telling the poignant story of a Hindu woman’s life during the violence and upheaval of the 1947 Partition of India. It was later adapted into an acclaimed Hindi film in 2003.

We discussed this book and movie in Tripoli Reading Group-2015

Pinjar- 2015-Tripoli Reading Group

Aj Aakhan Waris Shah nun,

Kiton Kabraan Vicchon Bol

Te Aj Kitab-e-ishq daa

Koi Agla Varka phol

Today, I call Waris Shah,

“Speak from your grave”

And turn today,

The book of love’s next

Affectionate page

Ik roi si dhi Punjab di

Tun likh like mare vaen,

Aj lakhaan dhian

Rondian, tainun Waris

Shah nun kaehn

Once, a daughter of

Punjab cried

And you wrote a wailing

Saga

Today, a million

Daughters, cry to you,

Waris Shah Rise !

Pinjar-by Amrita Pritam..Arc of development of characters | grace readings

WORKSHEET-DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1- In the blog, which piece of literature introduced him to the world of books in grade 3. How does the sense of Ontological Time develop in book clubs through discussion of the work-Junoon /Flight of Pigeons set in the 1857 Mutiny of India.

2- What was Miriam’s Gambit using the Family insitution and nuance of feminine power to Counter Javed Khan-the barbaric obsessive power.

3- How do works like – Heart of Darkness -Joseph Conrad (1890s Congo Africa) and Pinjar-Amrita Pritam (1940s-Partition of British India) help see the family institution and the effects of forces of Colonialism

4- Read a passage from a book and discuss how the story will be different if told by the perspective of another character.

5- Go to a Theater and watch a movie- and develop a sense of Ontological Time- being without clocks and calendars.

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